Can men be friends with women? By Mthobisi Wanda

The word friendship is synonymous to love. We all
love our true friends.
Even if you’re a guy, you do have feelings about
other guys and that does
not make you gay. It’s just love. Women cannot be
friends with guys
because, it is impossible. Men befriend women
because they have ulterior
motives. Men will always be attracted to women
sexually and that is never
going to change. By that, I do not mean men view
women as sexual objects
but, it’s only natural.
Most guys who become friend with women usually
don’t get laid. And that’s a
fact. They never get laid simply because they ignore
the sexual side in
women. They become teddy bears if I may refer
them to that. I compare then
to teddy bears because, women talk, hold, and sleep
with them but you never
see their penis. If a woman starts calling a guy her
friend, that is never
a good sign. Friend zone is never a good place to be
if you are a straight
guy. The so-called “sweet guys” use the friend
approach because they hoping
that they will get laid, but they are wrong. It never
happens.
Men can’t be friends with women also because
sooner or later you are going
to develop feelings for that woman. And before you
know it, you are inlove.
It’s the same thing as having friends with benefits.
You will end up cock
blocking her because now you are jealous that
there is another guy that she
is with. Same as women, they end up making
stories about the girl the guy
is with. They will even pull a story from two decade
ago to convince a guy.
In the end, it all ends up being awkward between
both of you.
What you can do is have sex with your ex and then
leave. Never let her even
lay her head on your pillow. If a woman lays her
head on your pillow, then
she already is thinking relationship. Always have
sex in your friends place
or something.